Drawing The Line

BLOG / Thursday, July 4th, 2013

Drawing The Line How do I keep my boundaries, when others walk over them?

By Alison James

You have practiced and done your psychic borders of your body and aura with maybe the bubble, Chakra spin, force field, mirrors, and a myriad of other protection techniques and yet others psychically trample or wade through your well laid out lines of demarcation.

Why you ask? Because they can and most times do not have a clue they are on a psychic level doing so. Just because you have good boundaries and understand intuitively what they are your and others lines, it doesn’t mean others have done the work or practice or even know what the heck a boundary is, other than a cliff, then of course it’s survival.

The solution is not a straight line but an ever undulating one and in many ways. it’s a balance of several techniques and one of the biggest is acknowledging that you sense your lines have been breached or on the way to being opened.

Just because you may not see it but yet know it intuitively it’s just as real as if someone walked into your home unannounced what would you do?

When someone or something and it could be a thought or energy or actual person you need to act. Use your tools and keep flexible with your field. Choose which is most important and one of the best it techniques it to physically say or write down what you feel and accept it as truth and bring into this time and place and ask yourself what can I do, now, that I know where it is coming from and maybe what it is.

So often we accept what is not ours or dismiss the infraction of another. it is your soul and your aura it is  your responsibility to say get otta here. only you have the right to allow or disallow entry. Like the example of someone walking into your home, sometimes a psychic entry may not be so obvious yet the effect is the same on some level within you. Acknowledge, act or prevent by making the statement of intent that no one or any energy is allowed unless you allow it- Put up your psychic no trespassing sign. Also, who may enter and when and how.

Keeping it fluid and not rigid is the key. There will be times that yes you will get trod upon energetically. In those cases call in or even preemptively, your team with Guides, a **prayer; Angels, Power animals, etc. or a blank statement: “Those who wish my highest good protect me, my children’s, pets, physical objects and so on. Tell them why you are asking for assistance”.

*The ask and ye shall receive goes into effect. +respect. Those who understand your highest good will not cross your boundaries without your approval and or **prayer for those who do release them, +”Forgiveness” sets the energy free. Learn and move on and take action in the form of acknowledgement and possibly a few different techniques. Work with your team. The more you release the more room you have to fill yourself with light and love.

*Ask, Seek, Knock
Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.…I believe this applies no matter the faith, creed or belief.

** http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer

+ http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=respect

++ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness